I support couples who want to work hard to have the relationship they desire, but struggle to stop the conflict and find connection.  

Do you:

  • Struggle to communicate with your partner so you don’t really feel heard or seen?

  • Wonder “how did we get HERE?”

  • Think “If only my partner would…then we could be happy”?

  • Wonder why your partner can incite such big and intense emotions in you?

  • Think that maybe you married the wrong person?

  • Think “We used to be able to work things out, but now we get angry over the smallest, most insignificant things. It’s exhausting.”?

  • Feel more connected to other people in your life than to your partner?

  • Find your intimate life is…well…not what you had hoped for?

  • Not feel like your partner has your back?

Couples who work with me are not INSTANTLY back to their honeymoon vibes, but over time, if they are willing to do the hard work, they do:

  • Find the courage to address what’s hurting.

  • Get honest about their wants, needs and desires, as well as their boundaries.

  • Learn communication skills that work.

  • Do the deep dive into their own patterns and growth areas from their childhood.

  • Learn to love and heal their own inner child and their partner’s as well.

  • Build connection and intimacy.

I help them work through some of the big blocks to connection, discover and shift their default patterns, release fear and “needing to be right” and so much more. All so they can live free to be their authentic selves, and still be happily together. (Or, in some cases, figure out how to move consciously toward being happily apart.)

The good news? Most things are “figure-out-able”.

Call now. I’d love to support you on your path forward.

About

Okay, so you know you want to go to therapy, but how to decide WHICH therapist? Here’s a bit about me to hopefully help with that choice.

 

Now what?

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